自我提升

对于一个二十多岁的女生，本来就应该开始慢慢挑选一片森林里的一棵树，不要觉得你还有很多时间，可以玩玩puppy love。我告诉你，你没有，女人黄金时段为20-30岁;男人黄金时段30-40岁。因此，选的男朋友就必须在你心中的好老公的必备条件里，因为他可能就是陪你渡过下半辈子的男人---你的老公。

如何选一级棒的男朋友？

必备条件：

❤ 男朋友不能对你大呼小叫，身为你的男朋友就应该疼你，保护你，爱你，专情与你。

• 何谓疼你？爱你？

只要你提出合理的要求，他一定能满足你的需求，而且从未埋怨过。在合法的范围，不偷不抢势要助你达成愿望。

• 何谓保护你？

只要你面对困境，他会挺身而出，把你从逆境中解脱，陪你度过一切难关。生病了，他会带你去看医生，提醒那个时段该吃药，把药拿到你嘴前势要你吞掉。就算你爹着不要吃药，他不会嫌你烦，还把药馅着把药传到你口里。跌倒了，受伤了，帮你涂药，背着你不再让你的小腿再次受伤。

• 何谓专情与你？

心中和脑中只有你，心里不会有任何歪念，受得住一切引诱和诱惑。口中和心中永远觉得你就是最好的。当你拿起他的电话，电脑，他不会很着急把它抢过来，不怕你看他的信息，留言。

❤ 男朋友懂得珍惜你

• 何谓珍惜？

无论你说分有几多次，他一定会挽回挽留你。

❤ 男朋友和你不会分有等级

• 何谓不分等级?

男女品等。不会无时无刻都要你跟着他的路，要记得你不是他的奴隶，你是他应该疼的人。不会无时无刻都把你关在家里，不让你和朋友出去。哪天比较夜回家，跟他说声不要让他担心你。不会无时无刻都要你去陪他，你也是人，人也终会有寂寞的时刻，既要你一个电话，他也会永远陪着你。当然你也不要提出无理要求，当他在外坡公干，不要扭着脾气，要他从外坡立刻赶回过来。不要在晚上吵着要吃McDonald的早餐。

❤ 男朋友不能无理取闹

• 你不是每天都出夜街，哪天出一次夜街就对你破口大骂的男朋友不要的！五六点，就赶你回来不然乱发脾气的男朋友不要的！就算迟一点回家，他应该提醒你不要一个人酱夜回家，要小心照顾自己。你有你自己的朋友，他也有他自己的朋友，不让你参你的朋友，无时无刻一定要参他的朋友，一定要你出现在他的视线范围内的男朋友不要的！

❤ 男朋友不应该向你提出性要求

• 要记得你是他的女朋友，不是他的老婆。要记得你是女生，不要随波逐流，女生的矜持永远都是无价的。你的第一次只能献给你的老公，不是你的男朋友。要记得床前男生会棒你棒到仙，床后他就是一条虫。男人时常都只会说，一次罢了，身为有智慧的女人千万别相信，因为有第一次一定有第二次，第三次。。。很多次过后就变成日常习惯。如果把你最重要的东西给了男朋友，你可有想过你对得起你以后的老公吗？对得起生你的父母吗？你能如何确定你的男朋友就是你的老公？你要懂得说不！永远记得你是女生，不要自以为觉得你的男朋友很疼你很爱你，就献身了给他，谁是好男人，你不知道，只有在老年时候，你才有能力去分辨谁是好男人。

❤ 男朋友懂得尊重你

• 何谓尊重你？

只要你不愿意或不喜欢的事情，他不会逼你做。你也不要傻傻因为他是你的男朋友，因为你爱他，就逼自己做他喜欢的但你自己不喜欢的事。逼你自己去做，就等于你连你自己都不懂得去爱，那你还有什么资格去爱别人？你是女生，为何你要去做男朋友喜欢的事而你自己不喜欢的事？为何要违背自己的良心去做不喜欢的事？在你心中就只有你的男朋友吗？你又没想过最亲的人就只有你的家人。如果他真的爱你，知道你不喜欢，他就不会说出口。知道你不喜欢，却还说出口，还附说不会要你去做你不喜欢的事，他根本就在放屁！他明明就想要你做你不喜欢的事，也已证明他不够爱你，没尊重你！

❤ 不能盲目听从男朋友的话

• 何谓不盲目？

每个男人都会说甜言蜜语。你要有自己的主见，坚持自己的立场，要懂得反抗。每个人都会跌倒，失败乃成功之母，没跌过你何知道什么是痛？有失败才会成功，人才会长大。当局者迷，要尝试去听从旁人说的言语。当你觉得你的世界只有他，也就等于你已误入歧途，最佳方法只有及早把自己抽回出来！没有人会心疼你，只有你的家人。

❤ 男朋友不能一直否定你做的事

• 他应该好好解释什么是对什么是错，不要总以为自己做什么都是错，他做的什么都是对，你的自信心去了那里？不能因为他而改变你自己。你的自我在哪？

❤ 男朋友不计较

• 男人天生本来就应该大方一点。男生为了要泡女，无论精神上还是金钱上都可以不顾一切为你送上，要知道他的目的只有一个：要泡你！泡成功了，却跟你计较送了什么东西给你，花了多少钱在你身上的男生不要的！你要知道没有人要他酱不顾一切地把一切送上，全都是他自愿的。不要傻傻自以为对咯，你真的用了他不少钱，你的念头应该是他心甘情愿的！因为没有人叫他泡你，没有人叫他那么傻不顾一切地送上。

❤ 男朋友尽情为你付出

• 何谓付出？

车在半路途中抛描了，如果可以放开他手头上的事就应该立即帮你解决。载你上下班，怕你被人捉了，担心你的个人安全。

❤ 爱他金钱还是爱他样子

• 不要因为他很英俊，他很有钱；英俊不英俊不是关键，爱你不爱你才是重点；他很有钱，你要什么都能买给你，那又能怎样？他只能金钱上满足你。

❤ 不能处处忍让男朋友

• 不能觉得他什么都是对的，处处忍让他。为什么一定要你让他，他就不能让下你吗？当你的男朋友时都要你处处忍让，那接下来的日子呢？你可否忍让他一辈子？你确定吗？不要以为你的世界没有了他就只剩下黑和白，“天底下是没有谁没了谁是不能的”，时间可以变淡一切！不要以为什么事情忍一忍就过，一点小事情，日久积累，都会变成大事情。离婚人士常都说，就是以前忍忍忍，觉得自己没了他就活不下去，结果日子久了，没办法再忍下去，最后离婚收场。

❤ 不能让男朋友知道你爱他比他爱你多

• 当男人知道你爱他比他爱你多，他就会觉得很嚣张，自以为事。女生要低调点

******注意：以上一切是必备！想想你的他是不是你要的！

以上纯属我的言论，有何意见或不满，尽请离开。谢谢！® Copy right reserved

8th anniversary

To: Dear June

Our 8th anniversary is just around the corner. It is on 3rd April which falls on this Sunday. First and fore, I'm apologized here that I'm not be with you. I can't celebrate our "big day" together with you.

Our ⓛⓞⓥⓔ story

We know each other since I'm 14 years old. Our faith comes from a basketball match. I bet , if the basketball match win, then I'll be with you and vice versa. And of course, I know the match will definitely win. I'm a "defensive investor", I won't take extra risk to compensate my return. Lol.

At the time H1N1 is severely spread worldwide, and in coincidence, you fall sick after came back from Japan. Doctor suspected that you may infect H1N1 and have to immediately send to hospital for isolation and observation. During the one week time, you can not cantact with any other people excluding your parents. I rush to hospital to visit you every day but the nurse blocked me to do so. I cry like a bitch and keep retorting you are only suspected but not confirmed. I don't care whether I may infect H1N1 as well and I just want to visit you. Finally, the nurse allowed me to chat with you for only 3 minutes.

I'm happy the day being with you but I hate you when you have to go Japan. And now, my turn to leave you alone and I went to Aus. I'm sorry about that. I have to get a better grade for my studies. We have to work hard to achieve our goal during this one year time. What you need to do is try your best to earn as much as you can to get a better future life and for me, I will try my best to get flying colour results. Gambateh!

『Puppy love will not be longer』

And, we prove It's FEASIBLE!

『Distance love will not be longer』

And, we're going to prove you guys, IT WORKS!

I'm an emo chick and hot temper. I'm easily get crazy and mad like a bitch even because of some litle things. You are the one who always forgive and tolerant me. Thanks for your forgiveness and tolerance. I'm always appreciate it! Thanks for being together with me for the eight years. Thanks for your love.

Your dear,

drooling

I hate Korean dishes especially Kimchi. I mean it! I hate those foods taste spicy and sour at the same time. I feel that it is totally not match and it is weird. I stepped in few Korean restaurants in KL but those are not delicious at all. Maybe it is my problem as I didn't find out a place with nice Korean food. Lalala~

However, I went to a Korean restaurant "MadTongSan" in Australia last week. It offers a great variety of Korea specialties and the point is all foods are delicious and tasty! Since I stepped in it, I change my mind. The heavy smell is damn great and it's totally make me drooling, seriously! It is quite a famous restaurant and so, we wait for about 1 hour to get our turn.

Korean cuisine is largely based on rice, tofu (dubu in Korean), vegetables and meats. And of course Kimchi is usually served at every meal. We ordered 2 soups, 2 main courses, yakiniku and 3 side dishes(salad, sweet potato and kimchi) to serve our eight "hungry" person. =D

MadTongSan's atmosphere

This restaurant is actually not so big but fit at least 50 customers

The kitshen is just behind the bar

Menu

I will visit YOU again and again. The best restaurant that served me well in Aus. It deserves me.❤

Oyster soup

steam-cooked rice

Kimchi Vege Tofu Soup

Pork

I uploaded this photo twice but still don't know why it rotated clockwise after uploaded.

>.O

my Dear's favourite--Yakiniku

"Siu yok" & bacon mix with kimchi

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Morning day @19th March

Today is a rainny Saturday. Wake up at 7am in the early morning and prepare to go to wet market at West-end to get some fresh fishes, fruits and veges. Intend to awake June after I woke up, but mission failed! His there is 2 hours earlier then my here, he is still in warm bed.

Raining is not a matter for Australian, the wet market is still pack and crowded.

Having "BIG BREAKFAST" at the mini station

Do you need some drinks?

Big breakfast set $14.50

Toast, scrambled egg, bacon, sausage, mushroom, tomato and spinach
It can serve two person but only serve ONE Ah Mo here. Ah Mo are in bigger size.

It tastes normal and a bit expensive here. $10++ for a breakfast is a bit higher price in such kampung place. For the same price, I can reserve a breakfast in the city.

wet market at West-end

I have not stepped into wet market in KL since tons of years ago. In order to get fresh and cheaper, I have no choice.

I bought bananas in wet market. It's much more longer in length and bigger in size.

$4.99/kg [2 bananas $3]

I can get few bunches of bananas not only TWO for $3(RM9) in Kl. All Asian fruits are ultimately costly here as in like banana, pineapple and papaya. I can't even saw durian here.

Life In Australia

Today is a shit day for me. T______T

I take 4 subjects(we called those as courses here) this semester. I have to attend 4 days classes each week. This is the only one part that make me feel okay.

Today is the second day in UQ campus. I attended two classes today. One is econometrics(compulsory course) and the another is external reporting(elective course). External reporting is a third year course of accounting and I'm major in Finance and I don't even have any basic on the field of accounting. I'm late to the class. After I step in the class around 10 minutes, I was like shit! I don't know what the hell she is talking bout. She talks damn fast and just talks like "qi lei gen". I'm totally not used to her slang. She talks 10 sentences, maybe and unfortunately, I get less than 10 words from the 10 sentences. LOL. After 10 minutes, both of us fully agreed WE MUST DROP THIS COURSE!!

Again, the campus is so big. Everytime when i attend a class, I need to spend at least 15 minutes to find out the right place.

Next, the previous tenant came my house and collected all the kitchen utensils and the modem as well. I have no internet to access and forced to stay in library to access the internet until the night time. Again and again, a boy who is the one of the previous tenant as well, he want to take one bed and one table from my room. He is not the owner who possesses these things, and all these things are not purchased by him. He definately don't have the authority to take all these things. Am I right? Absolutely, I'm the right! =)

The worst thing for me in Australia is I have to walk a distance to the bus station and walk wherever I want to go. The bus is the only one public transport for me. Nobody helps me to carry all heavy stuffs as like grocerries that I bought every week, my thick text book etc. Evelin and me plan to buy all grocerries once in a week. Two little poor girls have to carry few types of vegetables, eggs, oil, a bottle of milk, meat, soy sauce, ground black pepper, pasta etc. I'm really appreciated the life being with you, my dear June! I miss you so much!

I bring my own food with tupperwear for my lunch
I'm just like the characteristic of "shan cai" in "F4 Meteor Garden"

Pasta??? with hotdog, bacon and cabbage

cooked by Evelin and me

seaweed noodle again and again

hotdog with brocoli seaweed noodle

Lecturer Theatre

Big field in UQ

Lecturer hall

IT room in library

I'm so enjoy using the MAC desktop in UQ =)

Kitchen

Living room

Our bed

Our toilet

Econometrics textbooks (These books cost me $144, times 3 becomes RM432, damn costly!)


Prepare to go for class, bye!